Renowned Ghaianan counselor, Counselor Charlotte Oduro, has disclosed that a lot of pastoral wives live in pain, but can not speak it out.
Mrs. Charlotte said that the wives of these pastors go through psychological, sexual, and emotional pains in a chit chat with media guru Abeiku Santana on Okay FM, but no one can think they have these problems because they are the wives of pastors after all.
speaking on ‘the needs of our partners’, the counselor said;
“I have many men of God because I am one, their wives are seriously suffering but they cannot voice it publicly. You cannot say it because your husband is a pastor and you are his wife. Who are you going to complain to? You see her come to church well-dressed but behind the scenes, things are not going as expected”.
She disclosed that this is because most pastors do not make time for their wives and abandon them without options, but to bear the situations they face.
Counselor Oduro furthered that;
“She is going through pain because the pastor needs to take care of the church, the needs of the church and neglect the woman in the house. That is the conduct of most men. I have bought her a car, we have a house we have everything so she is fine. It is not about the car, it is not about the money but just giving a little time to her”